Marriage day

One year in married life, revisiting past one year from wife's point of view, silently observing her feelings to correct myself to be better. We being a different individuals , despite of exciting moments , she had her complaints too, if everything is happy and smooth then life will be dull, its only complaints which bring value to happy moments provided complaints don’t dominate happiness. So I will correct these complaints but sincerely will give opportunity for her to complain some more, otherwise life will be boring :-).

From my point of view, this one year is beautiful. She scolds me when I am lazy, she beats me when I irritate her, she gives her opinion when I need one, she tolerates my mad philosophy, she feels proud of my character, more importantly she loves me almost equal to my mother, she is best friend too. She talks anything and everything with me, even her too personal as well,

I am leading the life exactly the way I want to be, without taking her life for my selfishness, setting right expectations will avoid most of the problems in life. Money, we never had fight for money, I give all my salary to her keeping very minimal for my expenses, I request from her if I need some, I never asked or bothered about what she is doing with money. At any point of time, my mind thinking so many things out of which money has no or least priority. When I am like that, she is even more responsible. Guys , one tip , if u want to save more money , give full rights on earnings to wife, u will see the difference. When you respect her parents then automatically she respects ur parents more than u do, so not even a single problem between families so far.

Someone said that if you want to know purpose of your life “ write down answer to ‘purpose of life’ again n again till you find an answer which makes you cry”, my purpose of life is “taking care of my wife as long as I am alive”, This feeling going to evolve with time. I learned this from illiterate and very matured human, my father.