Everytime someone asks me how r u , my instant answer is always “excellent” and I genuinely feel it all the time, I do not say it to make anyone happier or impress etc... thats what I feel about life all the time.
Without any logical order writing down my thought process n experiences which gives me this excellent feeling all the time.
Most of my happiness comes from not doing many unnecessary things which increases quality of life there by happiness.
Anything that I want to talk about others goes through quick pre checks of “is it true, is it necessary, does it help me or others in positive way”. Even if one answer is NO, I will not participate in that discussion. Thanks to Inna for sharing wonderful thought some where which makes my brain work all the time.
I do not talk any negative or so called constructive things about others if the person I am talking about is not in front of me.
There was never a day in the last decade, I complained about others to their superiors or finding a common enemy to make my opinion stronger , I find my way with talks or just leave it n let the time handle or sometimes dont solve it for the betterment the person or society . Its easy to find the complaining path than other way around.
I do same thing in different ways to make my life interesting . That starts from super simple things like sleeping with planned thoughts , brushing my teeth in different order, opening bottle cap, reading order of the mail content or writing or way of wearing clothes , eating, approach to a problem, sitting , thought process etc.... . Every thing I do I try to do it in different ways from one time to another which my mind only knows and gives me a different feeling n experience. Same thing everyday but doing it differently makes it entertaining.
I get unlimited joy and happiness in GIVING with in my best possible limits. Taking is too boring. There were times where I gave away my last dollar to someone in needy back at home for many years and efforts I put in to give something to others is awesome feeling, I am just pure selfish for my own joy, never thought that I was helping others. But learned some lessons in this process as broke many times and I also need to make a living in difficult times.
Money , sometimes i go away from it , sometimes trying to get closer, sometimes no feelings, its a tool which gives opportunity to explore character n emotions. World would have been boring without this. As of now its not playing any important role n its order of priority is somewhere down in the middle or at bottom.
Purpose of life is life itself, which is living life today , just today the way I want for major part of the day.
Sports- Just like ‘ money is the byproduct of work’ , my skillset in sports is ‘byproduct of my thinking process and focus ‘ n its 10 percent of my time. I am not attached to them unlike many ask me. It started at the age of 30 n it may disappear anytime. I have no idea how I am able to play ten different sports in few years time at very good level, probably never existed before skills for some areas. Many professionals told me that whatever they learned in fifteen to twenty years I learned in an year alone. If I go by the traditional way of coaching it would have taken be 100 or more years and few hundred thousands of dollars on coaching. Saved or lived 100 more years of life at least. Thought process and focus makes difference. Point is not about bragging but to be wise on where to take coaching and where not, where to take others suggestions n where not. Dont have to go by historical references all the time to live life fully.
WORK, LIVING LIFE, and SPORTS helps each other, transfer of knowledge and skill set happens from one area to another and all are interdependent.
Very much committed n motivated to work without expecting anything which gives me lot of joy , even most difficult times are always joyful as there is a lot of positive work to the brain. Wonderful people around makes difference to life.
I just love everyone equally in this world , just that i spend more time with some thats the only difference, there is no way to measure or reveal the intentions behind every talks or actions and its boring job to explain intention all the time. I just bear the consequences of others interpretation and make it interesting for my life, again very difficult job than easy job of explaining intention but thats what I chose. First it gives me challenges n second it gives opportunity for others to known themselves better.
Beauty is not there is the body, but its in the mind n thoughts n discussions that comes out of mind. Making love is nothing but a deep conversation with mutual understanding , its extension to a discussion. All the humans of the world please understand this truth. Find easy means for the frustrations of life on your own, dont trouble others.
There is never a bias in mind based on gender or looks or any other criteria so that I dont miss the interesting people in this world, again my own selfish reason.
Existence of some people n their thought process gives me amazing feeling. Few conversations had lasting impact and I constantly remember them when i need to lift up my spirt n joy. Luckily I found very few, life may or may not give opportunity to discuss with them again but thought of their presence in this world makes my life awesome always.
I feel purpose of whole world is to make me happy. From morning till I sleep and even in my dreams, abundance of happiness comes from every situation I face with my thoughts and the way I process information.
I never compare myself with others for anything as my background and path of life I am leading is most unique and I believe others life is unique too, there is nothing in common to compare.
Highly self obsessed with my own life and even more obsessed with very few people who had great influence on me, their existence and meeting them gave me some meaning for my life.
I enjoy losing more than winning in sports. Winning doesnt gives me anything except few prizes, but losing takes life to next level but I dont like to lose.
When I was thinking that wife doesnt seem to like any exercise or any sports she gave me the shock of my life by reducing 13 kilos in 1.5 months time which I am sure motivates all her surroundings. You never know what hidden amazing talent exist or what motivates others to do extraordinary things which helps this world. Just be the catalyst for the change if possible. Positive life one live will definitely have lot of impact may be slowly sometimes.
Let others live their life fully, atleast dont spoil others party of life. Dont become the hindrance for others to explore their talent either by talks or actions.
I dont want to handle jealousy of others or other negative feelings towards me, while it may stop or slower my so called growth, it is also helping others to know themselves better, there is a bigger advantage to individuals and society in the long run.
I expect nothing from others.
Very thin line between passion , hard work and addiction. If one enjoys it,no bad effects on society or individual or to the family then doing anything to extremes is passion.
I hardly get anger or frustration outside as it only shows my weakness to handle life.
Never understood the concept of vacation, if the purpose of holidays is to be happy that should be part of everyday life and seeing the different world in the surroundings is possible with proper exploration and daily life should look like vacation.
Battles I go through are internal like why I fail to wear the same clothes everyday , why i m finding happiness in materialistic things , why I am not bored of my face but by other things.. a constant search of answers.
If anyone face a life threatening experience they value life even more, what if everyday life is horrible without much hope for many generations and 20 years of own life and they get a chance to live again by their own hard work, then remaining part of life is heaven and thats mine.
With continuous thoughts to explore life, its always interesting and entertaining. Purpose of everyone in this world is to make me happy and my job is giving opportunity for this world always to make me happy.
