Typically I call my parents every Saturday or Sunday morning times, yesterday I missed talking to my mom despite of repetitive trials to reach home. In the past I didn’t remember any days calling home on Monday night. When I called today, mom being mom, with first ring itself she guessed that it would be Anil, she was very happy to receive unexpected and predicted call. After a minute suddenly she told me that “ Swapna is very honest girl raaa, I am observing her from the last nine months I like her very much than any one else “.. wav… what a genuine compliment to my wife, when I asked my mom for reasons, she didn’t say any but stressing on Saps good nature. It takes a while to get compliment from my mom, not everyone deserves her compliment from her, she must have analyzed a lot before making such well deserved and honest compliment. Keep up the spirit Saps, you have a reason to celebrate your tomorrow, getting a compliment from your mother in law.
It has been 9 months since my marriage, between my mom& Swapna or my parents & saps parents or between families not even a single misunderstanding so far. Few days back when I was telling this to my friend, all he was telling was “you are exceptional”. Everyone is doing their bit for this smooth and happy relation. My parents, though they didn’t take even a single rupee dowry in any form my parents never expected anything either from my in-laws or from my wife, they always want to give something with in their possible limits, my in laws - they are like my parents, they are there always there when ever I need them, in these 9 months they took utmost care of me, especially when I was suffering from chickenpox. I think it was house warming ceremony in Bangalore, I was bit frustrated and showed that anger on my mother-in-law , I felt very bad that night and next day early morning apologized and she was very happy for that. After that my mother in law was telling that “ Anil knows how to behave even in worse times ”..pat on your back Anil… She is like my mother. My father in law, all his life revolves around his daughters, he will go to any extent for his daughters…….. My sister in law, she is like my sister, my wife always irritate and test her patience, but she is always nice... Last but not least my wife, she is my life and she manages all these relations perfectly. My parents are uneducated not so fashioned, my in laws and their families are very well off and educated, I am a hard to understand person and atheist, sister in law is sweet, more intelligent than me and my wife, my sweet brother who is so innocent and not as smart as me don’t know what to talk when but pure at heart, some hard core devotees are there in this group, despite of odds everything working out very well, its all because of everyone trying to give some thing without any expectations. I would have done so many virtues to be part of this wonderful family. I should thank each and everyone by phone and probably should send cheque for the treat, will do that definitely this weekend.
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