Whenever someone offer me home food, after I finish eating my compliments to host vary from “ very good, excellent, delicious, the best food I have ever had etc……” irrespective of taste .My comments not just for the food but for their effort in preparing food. Someone calling to home, pain in preparing food, serving and the attention they give to you..after all this if anyone gives adverse comments then I feel that’s the worse anyone can do for others. Give any negative comment about food and observe the feeling of the invitee, at least for a moment she will think to kill you by poisoning the same food. On the other hand, even a simple compliment makes them very happy and make them forget all the pain they have gone through in preparing, thats the least one can do for offering food.
I had discussions on this topic with friends many times, their view is that “ if we don’t correct, how will they improve”, as if your job is to make others as THE BEST CHEF. Life is not going to stop with a single normal meal or many such meals. But negative comments will stop others life for a second at least.
Today my wife learned and prepared delicious dosa. It was really very good . I called her mom and informed about her daughter’s cooking abilities, everyone is exceedingly happy, my wife didn’t even allowed me to wash the dishes today, just an hour before she very very angry with me for opposing her view on a discussion and she want to beat me like anything but not now, positive comment is simple but its advantages are many.
Its not just at food, about job , about , about jewellary, about appearance etc.....even a slightly negative comment take away life from others for few moments, we cover comments with the so called "suggestions", only our consciousness know its suggestion or not.
Ok , enough of your philosophy for today Anil, as if you never give any negative comments, yes I never:-)..........my consicousness...
Attached photo is the view I see from my office desk if I turn my head. Tallest building of the world, a river in between those buildings, heart of Singapore.
I had discussions on this topic with friends many times, their view is that “ if we don’t correct, how will they improve”, as if your job is to make others as THE BEST CHEF. Life is not going to stop with a single normal meal or many such meals. But negative comments will stop others life for a second at least.
Today my wife learned and prepared delicious dosa. It was really very good . I called her mom and informed about her daughter’s cooking abilities, everyone is exceedingly happy, my wife didn’t even allowed me to wash the dishes today, just an hour before she very very angry with me for opposing her view on a discussion and she want to beat me like anything but not now, positive comment is simple but its advantages are many.
Its not just at food, about job , about , about jewellary, about appearance etc.....even a slightly negative comment take away life from others for few moments, we cover comments with the so called "suggestions", only our consciousness know its suggestion or not.
Ok , enough of your philosophy for today Anil, as if you never give any negative comments, yes I never:-)..........my consicousness...
Attached photo is the view I see from my office desk if I turn my head. Tallest building of the world, a river in between those buildings, heart of Singapore.
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