My mentor, colleague, hotel mate in Paris and now the owner of a software company mailed me secret of his success when I requested him. I learned so many things from so many people, each and everyone I met so far helping me to improve myself everyday. From some one I learned how to live and from some others how not to live. Recently when I offered lead role for three projects, I read his mail again and adopted few things to me. May worth having a look.
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I am a simple man don’t like boasting too much about it.
Since you have asked…just some things that I do as my habit.
I try to be myself and not enact any role (like PM/TL or whatever). Should not be shy of doing any stuff. Even if you are PM/BA or whatever play developer’s role when need be (not to overdo it as well)
Always look at anything from being in other’s shoes also. If I had been in other’s position what would be my thoughts and expectations. Thinking that way helps to know what others need and expect out of you. Also lend your ears and consciously listen to people, its like giving importance by listening them out.
Try not to panic and create havoc over any issue/problem to worry others as well. Better spend that effort to find ways to solve and get out of the problem.
Accept your mistakes and never repeat it.
Being in this industry it’s not just important for you to be good and just learn and do things yourself. It is also important to take others, who falter or are slow, along with you as you are running ahead.
Respect everybody no matter how brilliant or how dumb he is. Definitely everyone has something good which should be tapped, understood and capitalized. You can learn lot of things from the dumbest of persons also sometimes, like you would have learnt some things from me ;)
That’s too much philosophy or "ideal" or "should have" kind of things. But these are not extracts from some leadership or relationship book, just some of my thoughts.
I am also evolving everyday working with different people.
Just be conscious and keep reviewing what you do, you will automatically keep getting better which you are already doing.
On top of all …just have fun and Enjoyyyyyyyy J
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I am staying in hotel as I don't have any accommodation now, will continue to stay in hotel for one more week. Its too hot in Melbourne now, so is hotel room. Even though AC is there, still its hot inside room. Eyes are closing down due to lack of sleep yesterday night.
Usual busy work and meetings through out the day. Got a call from my previous house owner, he said that he will return total house deposit as he was unable to find any damages in the house.7 months stay ,not even single damage in the house, marvelous, being bachelors we still maintained to keep the house neat and clean. Kudos to all roommates. After lunch when I was coming in the lift met one of my Chinese colleague, she liked DEVDAS movie a lot and loves to watch that movie again. Came out of office by 6PM , met Indian girl and colleague Aarti on my way back to home, hi and bye with her, reached room, found new place for my jog, jogging for an hour, when I was jogging lots lovers enjoying their evening time, showing off their private life in parks- cultural behavior :-), though I don't want to see unknowingly my eyes observed something which I am not supposed to see, sat down on bench and enjoyed DELHI6 music for half an hour, had dosa for dinner at Indian restaurant. My roommate and colleague reached home, discussed about food and eating habits for some time, settled down to write blog while my roommate watching a movie on TV. Arnold movie is going on , when I asked for the movie name my roommate gave a surprise look and told that itsssssssssss TERMINATOR 3, he described the story for some time and suggested me to watch first two parts also.
Will watch rest of the movie T3 now.
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I am staying in hotel as I don't have any accommodation now, will continue to stay in hotel for one more week. Its too hot in Melbourne now, so is hotel room. Even though AC is there, still its hot inside room. Eyes are closing down due to lack of sleep yesterday night.
Usual busy work and meetings through out the day. Got a call from my previous house owner, he said that he will return total house deposit as he was unable to find any damages in the house.7 months stay ,not even single damage in the house, marvelous, being bachelors we still maintained to keep the house neat and clean. Kudos to all roommates. After lunch when I was coming in the lift met one of my Chinese colleague, she liked DEVDAS movie a lot and loves to watch that movie again. Came out of office by 6PM , met Indian girl and colleague Aarti on my way back to home, hi and bye with her, reached room, found new place for my jog, jogging for an hour, when I was jogging lots lovers enjoying their evening time, showing off their private life in parks- cultural behavior :-), though I don't want to see unknowingly my eyes observed something which I am not supposed to see, sat down on bench and enjoyed DELHI6 music for half an hour, had dosa for dinner at Indian restaurant. My roommate and colleague reached home, discussed about food and eating habits for some time, settled down to write blog while my roommate watching a movie on TV. Arnold movie is going on , when I asked for the movie name my roommate gave a surprise look and told that itsssssssssss TERMINATOR 3, he described the story for some time and suggested me to watch first two parts also.
Will watch rest of the movie T3 now.
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